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Familial Responsibility

Familial Responsibility

A man should be able to take responsibility: for his family, for my wife, my children. He should understand that is a model for his son that his life – a model life of his son. Of course, there are situations when a son or daughter to reject the family experience – "I'm so not going." But even in this case, such a pattern of behavior has already lodged in a child, and Nowhere on it does not get to. Therefore, people must be prepared for family life since pre-school age. We got two extremes: too actively fighting for their equality of men and women who dream to go on maternity leave, although it is difficult to imagine a purely physiological terms. Take, for example, female feminists feel that women are not worse than men and can perform traditionally male functions, including leadership functions in family. She wants to play a leadership role in the family, to crush a man to prove that it is better than men. How can enroll in this case, man? Ah, well, well, act! And I'll play chess, watch tv, even ready to shake the baby – if only I did not touch and do not have to work hard at work.

If we deprive a person of one role, he immediately compensates the other. Sometimes you need to look at the situation on the other hand, by some positive qualities. And if all the time to say "bad, bad, bad , man and will be bad. There should be a mental hygiene of mutual evaluations. We're always waiting for us to be appreciated – look, word, gesture. There is one golden rule: never judge a person as a whole. Evaluate a specific act. Several years ago, psychologists have sounded the alarm. Isaac Dabah shines more light on the discussion.

A huge number of children on the tests was determined mother as something working, strong, responsible, and my father as something abstract and asexual to life. Growing up, the child is always trying to identify with the most successful parents, so that the boys appeared to seek their own risk identity through strong mother, through the image of women. " Is it really so? A child seeking behavior pattern in their own family and trying to identify with the most successful parents, it's true. But a smart woman makes a man a sense of success. Let him that something does not go, but this does not mean that it must be constantly criticize him, humiliate, especially in front of a child. And a smart man must build a positive image of the child his wife and mother. I hope that the future will be a beautiful woman, kind, caring, and the man will be strong, caring, loving, and then everything will be fine! Victor Smagin,