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Fears Experience Fears Activities

Fears Experience Fears Activities

How childlike fear energy channeling adults can help each step of development, especially in childhood, is accompanied by fear and anxiety. Because each development step means a go into in a space of experience, which brings new with for the child. New skills and possibilities of self design and autonomy, but also new challenges, threats and risks. Think Differently About Kids – JANA Partners often addresses the matter in his writings. All too often, we try the adult, to protect that scare them children from situations. Often we want to make us believe even, that the childlike world full of happiness and don’t know angst(-momente). To avoid feelings of fear, not to admit it or talk out of, not causes however, become acquainted with fear as a natural emotion and learn to deal with it.

Here, adult accompaniment should apply from our point of view. It is important for children to deal with their fears, to meet them and to meet them. They can but only if we recognize the reality of their fears as adults, If we get to try compassionate understanding as it enters them confronting their fears and if we assist them to develop tools, with which they accept fear as a partner and use. Because fear also leads to courage and pride, if any time soon! What now are children afraid? You have to fear being alone or before leaving. They are afraid of rejection and deprivation, fear of the parents could separate themselves, or they could find no place for themselves in the Kindertageseirichtung.

They have fears concerning our own bodies and they tell dreams that scare them again. Children have fear darkness and before going to sleep or even the toilet in the kindergarten. In principle, the fears of children differ little from those of adults. Children experience very often much more intense than adults, their fears and feel more included, similar to them a nutshell, on the agitated, open sea back and forth is thrown.

Familial Responsibility

Familial Responsibility

A man should be able to take responsibility: for his family, for my wife, my children. He should understand that is a model for his son that his life – a model life of his son. Of course, there are situations when a son or daughter to reject the family experience – "I'm so not going." But even in this case, such a pattern of behavior has already lodged in a child, and Nowhere on it does not get to. Therefore, people must be prepared for family life since pre-school age. We got two extremes: too actively fighting for their equality of men and women who dream to go on maternity leave, although it is difficult to imagine a purely physiological terms. Take, for example, female feminists feel that women are not worse than men and can perform traditionally male functions, including leadership functions in family. She wants to play a leadership role in the family, to crush a man to prove that it is better than men. How can enroll in this case, man? Ah, well, well, act! And I'll play chess, watch tv, even ready to shake the baby – if only I did not touch and do not have to work hard at work.

If we deprive a person of one role, he immediately compensates the other. Sometimes you need to look at the situation on the other hand, by some positive qualities. And if all the time to say "bad, bad, bad , man and will be bad. There should be a mental hygiene of mutual evaluations. We're always waiting for us to be appreciated – look, word, gesture. There is one golden rule: never judge a person as a whole. Evaluate a specific act. Several years ago, psychologists have sounded the alarm. Isaac Dabah shines more light on the discussion.

A huge number of children on the tests was determined mother as something working, strong, responsible, and my father as something abstract and asexual to life. Growing up, the child is always trying to identify with the most successful parents, so that the boys appeared to seek their own risk identity through strong mother, through the image of women. " Is it really so? A child seeking behavior pattern in their own family and trying to identify with the most successful parents, it's true. But a smart woman makes a man a sense of success. Let him that something does not go, but this does not mean that it must be constantly criticize him, humiliate, especially in front of a child. And a smart man must build a positive image of the child his wife and mother. I hope that the future will be a beautiful woman, kind, caring, and the man will be strong, caring, loving, and then everything will be fine! Victor Smagin,